Alright, So I've done some test drives and looking around and basically I've narrowed it down to a few cars.
2013 or newer V6 camry (was fun to drive, has plenty of pick-up and go, the plastics made it feel a bit cheap but overall it had everything and more i was looking for, and yes i noticed the kind of numb steering wheel i think someone mentioned here earlier), but i think i can get over that for that quite good acceleration feel, and it would make a very nice road trip and cruising vehicle.
2015 V6 dodge charger, winded up being able to test drive, was easily the funnest car I sat in/drove, the interior felt really nice, seats hug you pretty good. I was also told around 100k give or take that the front end ball joints and water pump i think it was normally need to be replaced, but we'll see the driving experience it gives might just be worth it in the end. have yet to see an insurance quote for it though.
I also got to drive a 2016 Lancer 2.4L it's nice, engine makes a lot of noises when you put your foot down a bit, but it doesn't do a whole lot, the interior is dated to say the least but I didn't mind it, It felt fun in the corners (right hand turns not a lot you can do with the sales rep in the car) even though i did say i care more about straight lines which i do it was still nice.
I also got to check out a used forester XT (can't remember the year off the top of my head sorry) and it's fun it doesn't feel like a 6 second car, but I also wasn't allowed to put it in sport or floor it obviously, so I'm taking the 0-60 times i was able to do with a big grain of salt, but overall the interior felt nice, touchscreen was nice but felt a bit slow to respond, steering felt decently responsive but not sporty I didn't expect it to be sporty feeling though, its still a suv afterall.
I was able to check out a couple cars a civic 2015, a Honda accord Sedan 2016 (i think), and the Honda CRV (honda dealers attached to the subaru dealer near me so yeah) and honestly they all felt like nice daily drivers, and they felt comfortable inside, but whenever you even did 1/4-1/2 throttle nothing really happens for the first second or two then it kind of does stuff but not really, (just as a note none where the bigger engine sport trims) and the insurance price was quite high and repair/replacement costs for some of the stuff was just outlandish, so they're officially off my list unless something changes in the near future.
I did also look at the kia forte 2.0 164ish hp, and it's a nice daily again, the interior is very nice, it feels like a very solid car when driving, it's a bit faster than the corolla S that I've had experience with, but overall i can't say I'd be terrifically interested now after also driving the v6 camry and charger, but the 2019 refresh is right around the corner so who knows
Sadly was not able to test a Elantra sport as the only one that was there was already purchased.
So that's kind of my early conclusion a few cars have been crossed off the list, and car's that previously held no interest are suddenly at the top, Again just figured I'd post an update since so many of you where very dedicated to trying to help me out, I really do Appreciate it even those who didn't get along with me.