Walking to school this morning with my 5 year old. I'm pulling him on a toboggan so we catch up to a dad with what I would guess in an 8 year old girl and a 6 year old boy. Even from a ways away I can see that he's yelling at her to catch up. He's yelling in a reasonable aggressive manner but not too far over the line.
This continues as we catch him and as I'm walking by he says to his son (and his daughter was out of earshot) "We're late and your sister is too dumb to catch up..."
I am not a confrontational person by nature and didn't say anything to him. I am regretting that now.
What has been bothering me isn't the yelling, because we've all been frustrated with our kids. It is the lack of respect he showed his daughter. I am by no means the world's best dad but I make a point to listen to my kids, respect their point of view and treat them as people. I figure the only way they will learn respect is if they see it.
It's been eating at me for the last few hours. Mostly because if that is his behaviour in public, what is he like at home? Poor kids don't have a chance.