Reliability? Engine issues?
Here we go again
Subaru engines are not "unreliable". Stop spreading sh!t you have no knowledge of, FFS.
What about a second gen 2008 -2012 Ford Escape 4 cylinder? Ground clearance 8.4 inches. 4 cylinder is rated for 1500 lbs. 6 cylinder model available for more towing and power, but slightly less fuel efficient. Common enough vehicle to find used, and find used parts. Reliable.
Toyota Venza 8.1 inches of ground clearance, similar fuel economy. 4 cylinder only rated for 1000lbs. Tires are bigger and more expensive on the V6, which is something to consider for light off roading. More expensive to buy. Reliable as well.
Since we're on the blanket statements with no justification, a friend of mine bought a 2008 Escape V6 and sold it 2 months later since it was a POS. It had no issues when he got it, full service records, and yet it had issue after issue and drank gas like a pig.
The right answer here is a 2014+ Subaru Forester 2.5L. 8.7" ground clearance, good AWD, and very reasonably reliable. They started at $25k new, so should easily be able to find one in his budget. Can tow 1,500lbs, and the XT model (will hold its value better, but our 2011 is probably only worth $15,000 on the best of days at this point) can do up to 2,400lbs. The XT drinks a lot more fuel, but the 2014+ with the CVT was far more efficient.