Look, I'm not going to make any more posts except to say this:
Mass is just that, mass. Mass does not equal safety. If mass equaled safety, the 1988 Delta 88 would be one of the safest cars on the road.
You might think that m*v^2 is abstruse egghead engineering, but you can understand most of what you need to know from that energy figure. Yes, the details of the crash energy dissipation arrangement matter too, but not as much as that figure of merit. If you ask an accident investigator what are the first things he wants to know, the mass and the velocity are very high on the list.
You can say that you are better off buying more fuel to buy a heavier vehicle than the JCW, and you would not be wrong. All I am saying is that you should strike a balance. When you are buying an F-150, you are buying a vehicle that is going to plow straight ahead in the half-second when you want it to yaw sharply to avoid an accident. So maybe look at something lighter. You may dismiss this type of thinking now, but you will wish you listened when you have your accident.
There are also issues with the high CofG of something like an F-150, particularly the ones with the popular six inch lift kits. Yes, engineers are saving you to some extent from rollovers through clever electronics and software, but there are fundamental principles of physics that bear directly on why you don't really want to be in such a vehicle.
I am fully aware that there are a lot of people who think pickups are highly sophisticated and worth a lot of money. There has been a lot of very successful marketing in that regard. Manufacturers are making around $20k on the King Ranch type pickups, so there a lot of reasons for them to prosecute the ad campaigns which haven't changed much since the "Like a rock" era.
I am not saying you shouldn't have freedom to buy a pickup if that is what you want. But certain truths have been obtained through over a hundred years of vehicle engineering, and you can't say nobody told you about them.
Me, when I need a pickup I rent a 3/4 ton one for $55/day. You may find that might work for you too. It is not that I can't afford a pickup, because I make a good living as a driverless vehicle engineer. It's just that it is hard for me to justify spending $1800 more per year on fuel compared to my S4 Avant daily driver. I only need a pickup about twice a year, and I suspect most suburban people would come to that conclusion too, upon sober analysis.