The gas mileage sounds about right, I'm currently averaging that with mixed driving, winter gas and my Thule roof box on top. On the hwy I am getting low 12's in that configuration. Also, I switched over to Michelin Xi2's for the winter & I swear when I first put them on I was getting better gas mileage than with the stock Bridgestone's. I know the Michelin's are a "Green" winter tire, but I didn't think their rolling resistance would be THAT much better. Also, I've just turned 11,000kms on the clock, so it's finally breaking in a bit & loosening up.
Overall it's a decent ride for what it is, smooth enough, responsive enough & tough enough. It doesn't pretend to be a family sedan, or sports car, it's a full framed truck based vehicle & that's what it drives like, so not sure why people would expect anything else. It drives MUCH better than my 1998 Jeep Cherokee did (though I did love that old AMC derived 4.0L inline 6) and it reminds me a lot of my 2001 Dodge Dakota, all were manual's, as is my Wrangler. And the one impressive thing so far during this freezing Ottawa winter we've been having is how quick the engine comes up to operating temp & starts heating up the cabin extremely quickly, no complaints there!