But don't ever think that you can't start over. I'm guessing that you're in your late 20s or early 30s, correct? I was 40 when I decided follow my passion for brewing and build my brewery. Never too late to do something you're passionate about.
That's heart breaking and soul crushing. And you can start over...why do people think they can't?
It's the curse of the middle class to have been told by our parents to get a nice, secure job.
36...
I had debated for a while to go back to school. However I set out on the wrong path long ago.
High school was a write off.... I just didn't care. I always worked but never saved. While my parents set me up on the concept of, you work for what you want... I did.. I always got what I wanted but lived pay to pay. It wasn't until taking a year off school and worked 3 crappy job that I realized where I was headed. In college I showed far more discipline since I was paying for it, I wanted to succeed.
I followed my passion and it ended up being a dead end. I've actually made the best of it.
I can't complain too much... we're living the perfect middle class life. House, cars, trips, bikes, etc..
moderate debt.
The problem going back is that it would require a major lifestyle change which BOTH of us would need to agree on. While I'd love to be doing something else, I do work for a great company, have good benefits and alright pay. Replace that now a days even after going back to school would be a serious challenge.
So I could embark on major change, adjust our lifestyle, spend time and money in school but still come out no further ahead.
I was 41 when I went back, again, to University. I've known people 20yrs older that changed direction completely.
I think it's amazing you managed to take the risk, make the change and come out successful at it.