Little late to the party. Congrats on the purchase. Reading your post was almost like how my thought process went. I cross shopped the VW Golf TDI , the Wolfsburg wagon (was too pricey for me). Briefly, considered a used 4runner as I work close, so gas wasn't an issue, and I want to tow a bit down the road. Briefly considered the Honda Accord SE, too many things I didn't like.
I am sure I will have a GTI someday. Just wasn't in my budget. Strollers would take the whole trunk. Nice colour too! Totally jealous!