Thanks for all the suggestions guys... even the strange ones

Yup... I am looking to be able to chuck a 5X10 on the back should I need to....(older kids + Uni = move a lot)... so 2800/3000lbs
I test drove a Suzuki and was pleasantly surprised with the fit and finish and a pretty good deal. The dealership folks were nice no pressure guys. More bells and whistles for the price.... that being said, there is a new model GV coming out next year.....do I smell mega depreciation??
The Subaru Forester just left me cold....It didn't respond at all when I put my foot down....not what I was expecting at all....
The Ford Escape was meh in 4cl form and the V6 starts getting a bit pricey for me.... and I have never seen so many buttons in my life!!! The Ford dealership was NOT a happy experience....I was lucky to get out without having to hock any internal organs!
I'm looking at max $30k in total with my trade being $8k of that...
I'm planning to check out the Kia/Hyundai offerings later this week and the Rav4 on the weekend.