FX35 is probably too small. I test drove one in Portland in 07 when I was shopping last. Very "sporty" and lots of fun to drive but a little tight for cargo room.
I've been into Dobsons twice to try and look at the new Grand Cherokee. Both times I parked at the showroom door,walked all around the GC,sat in the driver's seat,sat in the back,opened the hatch etc etc Neither time did anyone even acknowledge my presence with so much as a "hello" or "can I help with any questions?" Finally after five or ten minutes I left. That,combined with my deep suspicions about Chrysler reliability, probably have taken Jeep off the list.