Are you shopping for YOUR car, or for HER car? Easy decision IMO...
Good one!

No, it will be my car, and I'm free to get whatever I want. But...
Also, do they have all the service records? You could at least see how the car was maintained until now...
Test drive it!
And then let us know what you think!
The car is about 1,200 kms away. Not too far for me to hop on a plane and bring it home, but a bit too far for a test drive.

I'll call the dealer tomorrow to get some more info. It's a CPO from a BMW dealership, so I assume it will have a full history.
Would the wife like the colors? What are they btw?
I doubt, with a manual transmission, that the xi would be less fun to drive in the summer. If I'm not mistaken, the additional weight of the xdrive is minimal.
Colours are silver metallic on black leatherette. A little boring IMO, and I'm concerned the black leatherette will be a bit hot and sticky in the summer. Haven't even mentioned the car to my wife yet.

And you may be right about the xDrive still being fun in the summer. But, it does add about 260lbs, IIRC. Still, I think the GTI will be a scrappier, more exciting car to drive, even if it is FWD.
A proper GTI test drive is out, though - it's a four-month wait for a factory order (can't get the car I want otherwise), so I'll need to get on it soon if I want the car for spring. Maybe if we get a few good days of warm weather the roads will improve to the point that a proper flogging will be possible.