Well looks like we have failure to launch.

Apparently the car we thought we bought had been sold to a Quebec city resident a few hours before we made our agreement. The last 2008 Outback Touring with manual transmission in Newport Blue Pearl and Quartz Silver Metallic in the country.
The salesman has been diligent in trying other dealerships in the east (as far as Ontario I believe), but it was a popular colour so it's sold out.
We liked the Deep Bronze Metallic Harvest/Gold Metallic also, but the light tan/taupe interior would be hell to keep clean with the kids. There are some grey and silver ones around, but neither me nor the Mrs particularly care for shades of grey.
I'm frankly not sure what to do at this point. This process of elimination has been going on for weeks. We may have another look at the Forester XS (marginally smaller, less refined) or Legacy Wagon Touring (marginally lower, a bit sportier).