Thanks for the replies.

The dealer let us have the car for the evening. We noticed that the climate control and radio buttons don't light up, when the headlights are on. They are suppose to, right?

That was our only complaint. The sales person said for 2004, the TSX never had lighted buttons for those areas.

I really DOUBT that.
mmret, you are right, the car felt it needed more battery power to start, it was kind of hesitant. It still has the OEM one.
Yes, this car will have to be auto, for my mom, who can't and will not learn to drive manual. Thats the way it is. The TSX drives much better than our Accord, thats a given. Also, 2006's are out of our price range, so we cannot consider them.
About the 04' having the most bugs; wasn't this vehicle out in Europe the years before as the Accord? So it shouldn't have THAT many major bugs?
We are going to look at another one, same year, same mileage, same color, this Saturday (private sale).
Will keep everyone updated...