Thanks all. My wife has given me one week…

..then I must stop driving it around

. This is her ride so I need to let her have a chance.

I took it out to Tim’s this morning while she was in the shower to pick up an XLR and played with the ESC in the fresh snow. There was nothing I could do to go sideways. The HID’s are very bright and I had to play with the levelling switch as not to check other drivers cavities.
We got the Tribeca Limited from Davenport Subaru in Orillia and hitches are on backorder with Subaru. The dealer managed to get one off another dealer so that worked out okay. By waiting for a few weeks the lease price dropped by $130/month as Subaru adjusted for the slow sales by reduced pricing and lowering rates. The US pricing issues has saved me a few $$$$ for sure.
Steve, the rattle is non-metallic sounding and more of a thud

. The under slung spare is not as tight as it should be and will try to adjust it later today.