Wow! Thanks for all the great feedback ladies and gents. I really do appreciate it. I am swaying to the Mazda 3 but a test drive tonight will help solidify that. To answer some of the questions and thoughts....
- I have drove the Jetta for a couple of years (roomie's car). I learned to drive manual on it, and although I am comfortable with it for everyday use, I still fear the day I roll back into someone in their restored car on a steep hill -- lights out for me. Thanks for the tip on "forgetting about the deal."

Good advice since my roomie has been pushing 'the great deal logic' on me, as have the guys at work. Then again, all them are against leasing or buying new.
- I have read so many articles saying people would never shell out money to buy a NEW car. I will have to look in to the 06's since I was pricing an 07. How far back would you go with the M3? 2005? When were there significant upgrades? The reason the VW appeals(ed) to me is that I know the owner and know how it has been treated.
- One consideration for buying as opposed to leasing is that Victoria rarely gets snow. Cars out here seem to last forever. I have never seen such old cars in immaculate shape -- a pro to buy for sure.
- Financially, I simply can't afford much bigger vehicle if I plan to save to buy real estate, so that has ruled out vehicles that are perceptually better to take to the ski slopes. For the few times I would head into the interior to ski a year, how do you think it would fare? I took the VW up to the slopes last year and it was fine...
- From all the stats I've read, it doesn't appear as though the VW is much larger than the M3. Like one person noted, the trunk on the M3 seems to be a bit smaller in lieu of rear leg space. Thanks for the info on weight.
Obviously a lot will be said after I drive the M3 tonight. Thanks again for everyones feedback!
... and I agree, M3 only comes in sedan and hatchback... or as the website says, Sport. The only other version I have heard of for 2007 is the Mazda 3 speed... which is already pre-sold in Vic.