at 30k, it was the front set of rotors and pads, this time it was the rear set. Yeah it didn't make sense to me that rotors had to be replaced in tandem. That would have saved a chunk of $ right there. My bad there, I should have asked why they had to change the other rotor before they did the repair.
They gave me back the pads and rotors after the service and before the yelling. My wife didn't mention they gave them back till a few days later. I agree, there's no way of knowing if they were mine.
Thanks for all your feedback, much appreaicted...