1 more thing, GTA driver - assuming you are a lawyer, your time must be worth a pretty penny. If you spend, say 10 hours going between dealers, driving all over the city, negotiating, and you save yourself maybe $500 from what the 1st guy would have sold you the car for, had you just sat down and negotiateed in good faith with him, was it really worth it?
Armed with an APA quote or CCC numbers, most smart buyers don't waste their time (or that of the salesperson) playing the game. It sounds like buying a car IS a game to you, which is perfectly fine. If you enjoy the haggling, telling salespeople stories about what "other dealers" have offered you, hey, have fun with it. Me, if I meet a "supreme buyer" (otherwise sometimes called Harry Hardass) I just have fun with them. If they want to buy a car I will be blunt and to the point, this is what I can do, do you want to make a deal TODAY? If not, have a nice day, you dont have to go home but you can't stay here...
I sleep well at night, I make a decent but not a huge wage, if I wanted to work 50-55 hours and make more money I could, I'd rather take care of my daughter on my days and mornings off,and have a good balance in my life between family, work and other interests. And if I was a scumbag I wouldn't get 5 deals a month just on referral and repeat.