I don't know if that helps in your case, but I've spent over 3 months negotiating my Forester - covered two local dealerships and even went to Calgary. After I've got the numbers and "best deals" from all of them, I was glad my local dealer went an extra mile for my business. Forester is an excellent vehicle, I donno how people even compare driving Forester and CRV. I would go out of province to get the best deal on Subie cause it is simply worth it 
Well since I did, I can tell you I chose the CR-V for looks over the Forrester.. It's kind of like.. How can people actually like the Honda Element, some people do for some reason even though it's ugly looking.
I found the CR-V was more stylish than the Forrester for the simple fact that the Forrester looked like their station wagon stretched for height. To me, if I wanted a station wagon I would of bought their Outback, or if I wanted a similar look of the WRX I would of went with the WRX. I just didn't like hte look of it at all.
Again.. Matter of choice on styles really... Rav-4's are nice, but we also tried that and felt like we were driving a 15 year old vehicle.