I know this is an old thread, however I wanted to thank everyone for their comments and let you know what I did.
I tried for a long time going after what James' mentioned, a late model higher mileage (upscale) car, however I grew tired of people trying to steal my trade/make easy money/holdout for more etc. On reflection, my experience was valuable - its really a sick and illogical industry because all these people wasted their time and made no money off me, when there was money sitting right there in front of them to be made. If they had a brain and (a) came out with their best shot and (b) gave the impression of working with me. In fact there was
only one guy who did
even one of these - (b) but held back on (a) big time in terms of the trade value until it was too late. Sick and stupid selling techniques from the 1920's or thereabouts, the most unproductive business people I've ever met.
I concluded you have to know someone on the 'inside' of the industry to buy a late model upscale used car, unless you are prepared to be taken. "Taken" as in, one or more of; bad vehicle/normal price, poor trade value, too high price etc.
I got the value out of my car on a trade for.....and a good price on, a 2006 Jetta 2.0T with DSG and the Luxury package! The 6 speed DSG transmission is worth the price of admission on its own. Nothing but this or the BMW manumatic could have got me out of a manual transmission after some 40+ years

Everything else I'm aware of out there is a slushbox. Many thanks to the Audi R8 @ LeMans and ALMS racing programme for bringing this technology, direct port injection etc. down into passenger cars especially at the low price point of the Jetta. A happy ending!
