I'm no technical whiz, so I hope one of you out there can answer this for me.
Yesterday, I was driving my wife's RX330, and we were 4th in line at a drive-through car wash. I turned the engine off. When asked what I was doing, I argued that idling is a complete waste of gas. My wife asserted that frequent shutting off and restarting of the engine damages the starter system. Setting aside the car is a 2005, and any repairs would be under warranty, I argued that modern fuel injection/starter systems are highly efficient (and in a Lexus, well-made and reliable), and there shouldn't be any untoward effects on the car.
Who's right on this one?