If you're planning for the future, think about what will happen. You say wife will be off work for a year, then what? How will you handle child care? With our kids, both my wife and I have both cars fully equipped (was 1 baby seat and one booster seat in each vehicle). I've seen too many couples where they have to make sure that the baby seat is left with the baby, because depending on schedules, the same parent may not be picking the child up.
Depending on what's in your future, you may want both vehicles child-equipped. And four doors is far, far better than 2.
And as I just learned: make sure your kids full close the bloody car doors when they get out. We've been away for most of the weekend to a hockey tournament, and I just had to have my car boosted, because someone forgot to close her door, and we haven't been home enough to notice the light was on!!!!!!!!!! 275,000 km, and the only time I need a boost is in my own bloody garage. Where are those stupid cables, anyway?



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