THanks guys. I've pretty much decided to go with the Pilot. Our price range ($30-33k + tax) meant I was comparing 2003 Pilots EXL's to 2003 MDX's, with maybe $2-4k more for the MDX.
There really wasn't much in the way of content the '03 MDX offered over a Pilot EXl. The only major "MDX-only" features I see are - stab control (nice to have), better audio system (not important to us), power passenger seat, seat memory (forget what its called), a bit more hp and tourque.
I don't think the '03 MDX had tire pressure monitors, definately no curtain airbags, backup sensors or any other major feature. Also, the MDX takes premium, while the Pilot takes regular unleaded. I know the feature content was improved in '04 and '05, but those are outside my price range.
Also, seating is only for 7, versus 8 for the Pilot, which is an issue for me since I can count on having 8 people in the SUV a few times a year. My wife is perfectly happy with the Pilot's styling and she'll eventually be driving the SUV 75% of the time.
Am I missing anything in this decision?