I am looking for a mid sized SUV with 3rd row seating for the times when the grandparents are around and we need them for a short trip. (Small nimble Grannies and kids

). I also require a vehicle with at least a class 3 tow receiver to haul my dirtbike (sideways ramp that mounts into the receiver, aprox 400lbs toungue weight). Personally I prefer a "truckier" feel as I already own a car. I appreciate a vehicle that makes good use of its size. Tigh turning circle doesn't hurt.
4Runner: Not enough headroom, weird seating ergos and the windshield/roof junction is almost at my eye level. How anyone over 6' is supposed to see out (especially overhead traffic lights is beyond me). Apparantly no 3rd row option anymore.
Mitsubishi Montero: Neat package but felt too tippy, no side air bags and weak engine.
Touareg: I know, no 3rd row seat. For the weight and size this SUV has less space than my Passat. Not for me.
That leaves me with a 4 vehicle list, 2 on the car type side and two more trucky.
Car-like:
Volvo XC90 V8: Tight 2nd seat, 3rd seat but nice looking and well appointed. Feels solid but is quite pricey at $68k.

Acura MDX: I looked at one of these a few years back and haven't checked out the 2006 yet. It impressed me last time.
Truck Like:
Land Rover LR3 SE: Really appeals to me, the best use of space I have ever encountered. Nice airy, throne feel. I am scared of Land Rover's reputation although early reports on the LR3 seem ok. Way over built for what I need. The 4.4L V8 not only gets lousy mileage but does it on premium.
Nissan Pathfinder: Reminds me of the LR3 with a little less polish. For $16k less than the LR3 it seems like a good deal. Even though the V6 uses regular I noticed that the * says to use premium for max power.