He obviously has a bias toward European cars, and that's no different than the bias some people have for domestics, or asian-imports. In the case of suspensions, there's far more you can do to resolve the personal issues one has with the handling of their car than, say, the lousy electrical systems of a Mercedes.
Heck, I want a stiffer suspension with better active handling? Let's swap out the stabilizer bar, or use adjustable coil-over springs with more aggressively-valved shock absorbers. Heck, one can have the suspension tuned dozens of ways to fit their needs and wants. In my mind, there's far more non-adjustable aspects of a car to worry about when it comes off a dealership lot.
I tend to think that manufacturers aren't exactly building all cars with the most aggressively tuned suspension anyway. Aside from ultra-performance GT cars, it's not like you can take just any car in stock form and go to the track. Each will have traits that are better or worse than another on the highway; and I'm pretty sure that none will physically touch pavement in heavy braking. That's only ever happened to me when toe-hooks scrape due to a parking lot incline being approached a little too quickly; otherwise, that's not exactly something to worry about at all.