OK, firstly thanks for all your advice up to this point, I feel I am now armed with a lot of the facts when dealing with these people.
I have come to terms with the fact that toyota dealerships will not budge on price. And they are not exactly falling over themselves to throw in extras, so is is largely a lottery which dealership I buy from. (it will probably be decided on the basis of the least greasiest salesman (so three dealerships down already)).
Also I cannot find the truck I want on a lot and all dealerships say that I must factory order, which is fine, but they also want $500 as a deposit (supposedly returnable).
Is this standard practice or even ethical?
If I am handing over $500 then I want a cast iron guarantee that we have already decided the walk away cash price for the vehicle, I do not want to be hit up for extra fees on delivery. Should I have a lawyer draft an agreement to be signed when I hand over the deposit that states the remaining cash due and the exact vehicle (mother in law is lawyer so would be free). If I did would they sign it?
They also want me to fill in credit authorisation form before they will order the truck, but I want none of this as will arrange own financing and less have to do with dealership the better.
Thanks again for all your advice and let me know what you think