Thanks Bmorton. I will check with the dealer but it sounds like I could spend $1000 on toys easily. I believe extending the warranty from 3yr to 5yr is about $500 so if that could count they I'm sure I could do it.
Snowman, the EcuTek thing sounds interesting, is that like the modules they make for my old Explorer that changes performance and shift points but takes 91 gas? How does that work when you already have a turbo and use 91? I can't imagine having even more power (since I only 155hp now) but maybe there's no such thing as too much.
Ovr50, thanks for the list. I think the cargo mat is standard, but the nets look like a good idea (esp. since I can't just open the rear glass). May I ask why you hate the self-dimming mirror? I drove a Vue with it and it didn't seem too bad, just too expensive as a Subaru option. But it's yet another thing where control is taken from the driver, which would worry me a bit.
Why not a remote starter? Assuming there is one for the XT that is. I had Derand
www.derand.com put one in my Explorer when I moved to outside parking two years ago. Don't use it much but when the GF's here she gets a chill if the Explorer's cold (and no one likes a chilled GF

).
Colour?
I'm choosing between Black, Red, and Grey. Oh, and Silver. Given that there are only seven to choose from, that means I've eliminated blue, white, and gold. A note about the gold, someone (here?) recommended it and I liked it in one photo I saw (the guy who's fighting with Livermore Subaru in California). But when I saw it on a lot last weekend I thought it was ugly! The 2005 gold is different from the 2004, and while it's a matter of taste, I wonder if anyone who likes Forester gold might be referring to the 2004.
Black looks incredible. When it's clean and when it's shiny. I never wash my silver Explorer and GF's silver Camry gets a wash "sometimes". But maybe with some incentive (black vehicle that will look like crap when dirty and amazing when clean) I'd make the effort to do it or have it done?
The red is weird, it's not bright red but it's nice. It's a good compromise (as red goes) since GF looked at the Canadian-flag-red car next to it and said, "good thing it's not _that_ red!" while I was thinking, "if only it were _that_ red!". Red cars are supposed to get more speeding tickets.
The grey is interesting, it's new this year and it's a bit taupey.
And of course silver is the traditional colour that hides the dirt, hides the dings, hides the everything. Though it doesn't hide the extensive rust any more.
Any advice? The salesman is steering me away from black based on my car-care habits and I respect that. Don't want to get into black and then resent washing it (or not wash it). But it looks great!
Thanks!
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