Valued member, eh? Hmmmm. That's a nice thing to say, T. Thanks.
I should copy your post and show it to one of the more girly forums I USED to attend (gardening). My outspoken posts weren't appreciated there. Bunch of whiny, self-absorbed, navel-gazers. "Ohhhh, my daughter/sister/son/brother is in trouble for robbing a bank, and I don't know what to dooooo! Wahhhhh! I need your prayers! Wahh wahh wahh." Good lord.
Brigitte