That's my point exactly Keith... the Pathfinder compares favorably with other "real" SUVs, those with robust 4x4 systems, like the Cherokee, etc, etc. But comparing the Pathfinder to a CR-V is kind of pointless. They'll both have completely different attributes and strong points.
Like you said, if he's looking at the CR-V, he should also looking at the X-Trail, Tribute, Escape, RAV4, GM Equinox and maybe even the Subaru Forester. One might also want to take a look at the Pontiac Vibe, Toyota Matrix, Suzuki Aerio Fastback as they offer very similar levels of functionality, depending on your intented usage of course.
If he needs something a bit more serious for hauling boats, trailers, or doing some off-roading, then the Pathfinder, Cherokee or Suzuki Grand Vitara/XL-7 become interesting options.
Just my 2¢